Kennedy Widow says “No” on Assisted Suicide

A poll just out Tuesday shows that support for Question 2–Physician Assisted Suicide–has plummeted in the past month.  The ballot measure that would allow doctors to prescribe lethal pills to an ailing patient had 64 percent support a month ago, and after extensive public education campaigns getting the truth out, now the polls show 47 percent support it and 41 percent oppose it.  That is very good news.

Equally good news is an Op-Ed column in the Cape Cod Times by the widow of Ted Kennedy, Victoria Reggie Kennedy, opposing Question 2.  For today on this post, please hold back your criticism of the Kennedy’s for other matters where that criticism is warranted.  This blog post is about Physician Assisted Suicide, and though we may have legitimate beefs with the Kennedy’s on other issues, this particular blog post is not the time or place for them.  BCI thinks it is good to see a public figure, such as one of the Kennedy family, come out publicly and oppose Question 2.  In fact, you may want to share this column with people you know who tend to vote with the Democratic Party and who currently support Question 2.

Without further delay, here is the column:

Question 2 insults Kennedy’s memory

October 27, 2012

There is nothing more personal or private than the end of a family member’s life, and I totally respect the view that everyone else should just get out of the way. I wish we could leave it that way. Unfortunately, Question 2, the so-called “Death with Dignity” initiative, forces that issue into the public square and places the government squarely in the middle of a private family matter. I do not judge nor intend to preach to others about decisions they make at the end of life, but I believe we’re all entitled to know the facts about the law we’re being asked to enact.

Here’s the truth. The language of the proposed law is not about bringing family together to make end of life decisions; it’s intended to exclude family members from the actual decision-making process to guard against patients’ being pressured to end their lives prematurely. It’s not about doctors administering drugs such as morphine to ease patients’ suffering; it’s about the oral ingestion of up to 100 capsules without requirement or expectation that a doctor be present. It’s not about giving choice and self-determination to patients with degenerative diseases like ALS or Alzheimer’s; those patients are unlikely to qualify under the statute. It’s not, in my judgment, about death with dignity at all.

My late husband Sen. Edward Kennedy called quality, affordable health care for all the cause of his life. Question 2 turns his vision of health care for all on its head by asking us to endorse patient suicide — not patient care — as our public policy for dealing with pain and the financial burdens of care at the end of life. We’re better than that. We should expand palliative care, pain management, nursing care and hospice, not trade the dignity and life of a human being for the bottom line.

Most of us wish for a good and happy death, with as little pain as possible, surrounded by loved ones, perhaps with a doctor and/or clergyman at our bedside. But under Question 2, what you get instead is a prescription for up to 100 capsules, dispensed by a pharmacist, taken without medical supervision, followed by death, perhaps alone. That seems harsh and extreme to me.

Question 2 is supposed to apply to those with a life expectancy of six months or less. But even doctors admit that’s unknowable. When my husband was first diagnosed with cancer, he was told that he had only two to four months to live, that he’d never go back to the U.S. Senate, that he should get his affairs in order, kiss his wife, love his family and get ready to die.

But that prognosis was wrong. Teddy lived 15 more productive months. During that time, he cast a key vote in the Senate that protected payments to doctors under Medicare; made a speech at the Democratic Convention; saw the candidate he supported elected president of the United States and even attended his inauguration; received an honorary degree; chaired confirmation hearings in the Senate; worked on the reform of health care; threw out the first pitch on opening day for the Red Sox; introduced the president when he signed the bipartisan Edward M. Kennedy Serve America Act; sailed his boat; and finished his memoir “True Compass,” while also getting his affairs in order, kissing his wife, loving his family and preparing for the end of life.

Because that first dire prediction of life expectancy was wrong, I have 15 months of cherished memories — memories of family dinners and songfests with our children and grandchildren; memories of laughter and, yes, tears; memories of life that neither I nor my husband would have traded for anything in the world.

When the end finally did come — natural death with dignity — my husband was home, attended by his doctor, surrounded by family and our priest.

I know we were blessed. I am fully aware that not everyone will have the same experience we did. But if Question 2 passes I can’t help but feel we’re sending the message that they’re not even entitled to a chance. A chance to have more time with their loved ones. A chance to have more dinners and sing more songs. A chance for more kisses and more love. A chance to be surrounded by family or clergy or a doctor when the end does come. That seems cruel to me. And lonely. And sad.

My husband used to paraphrase H.L. Mencken: for every complex problem, there’s a simple easy answer. And it’s wrong.

That’s how I feel in this case. And that’s why I’m going to vote no on Question 2.

Victoria Reggie Kennedy is an attorney, health care advocate and widow of Sen. Edward M. Kennedy.

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4 Responses to Kennedy Widow says “No” on Assisted Suicide

  1. David S. says:

    Cardinal O’Malley was at my parish (St. Adelaide’s in Peabody) this past weekend to celebrate the 4 PM Mass. After congratulating our parish on our 50th anniversary he gave what I thought was a very strong homily about the obligation of Catholics to vote against assisted suicide.

    At the risk of taking this blog post off on a tangent, I was wondering why is it that our Church leaders can tell the faithful to vote against a ballet initiative but not against particular candidates? Is it simply to preserve the Church’s tax exempt status? And if that’s the case, might it be time for the Church to pay taxes and to begin to proclaim the Gospel?

    • David, Thank you for your comment. We are glad to hear that Cardinal O’Malley gave a strong homily on this topic. The direct answer to your questions is, yes, a non-profit cannot opine for or against specific named candidates. Legally, to maintain their tax-exempt status, they can only remind voters about what issues are important, and they can provide non-partisan voter guides that objectively compare the candidates’ positions on those issue. Even the latter is no longer done in this diocese, which presents a different question and set of concerns.

      Your questions are very valid ones, but let us not go there with comments on this blog post. This one is about Physician Assisted Suicide.

  2. Chris says:

    Sadly, Mrs. Kennedy is also a national co-chair of “Catholics for Obama,” one of two in the state. The other is BC’s Thomas Groome, of the theology department — as noted elsewhere, he speaks at Catholic events and parishes in the archdiocese, without comment from the chancery.

  3. jbq2 says:

    I take issue with the fact that Reggie (surely not any relation to Mr. October) notes herself as the wife of her late husband. Joan was the legitimate wife. She raised his children and made his bed. There is another word for such as Victoria Reggie. Cardinal O is the legitimate discerner of Catholic doctrine and not another of those so-called Catholic abortionist supporting women out to do a Marxist makeover of the Catholic Church.

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